Being positive is more important than anything you can  .

Spinning things to be more positive is more important than just thinking you’re positive…It’s the ability to see everything in a positive way.

(Please re-read that last sentence)  Notice it says EVERYTHING. This doesn’t mean a few things, it’s everything.


If you can’t make things positive…change them so that they are.

Remember, everything in a relationship should be positive. Positively wonderfull…actually.

don’t confuse fights and arguments with negativity…sometimes a fight is a path to the positive as long as it isn’t destructive or have any kind of abuse to it or involved with it.

Unfortunately, the only way you can spin abuse into the positive is the ability to leave the abuse. That’s the most positive way to make an abusive relationship positive….leave.

Please check out this blog entry from a fellow wordpress blogger on being positive.