The deal is that relationships can be confusing.  Believe me, it’s not just teens who find matters of the heart difficult to navigate and understand, adults have trouble with it too :).   But the first time of ever being in love or thinking we might be in love is something that is supposed to be special and memorable.  Think about it… first kiss, first date, first relationship :).   First’s are tough and can sometimes be awkward and confusing. 

However, new and exciting falling in love can be; relationships should NEVER have a first ridiculing or name calling screaming match.  Relationships should NEVER have a first slap or a shoved up against the locker episode.  First loves should NEVER pressure you into making big decisions with YOUR body.

Opt4  a memorable, respectable, and healthy first <3.